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Boyfriend Got Girl Drunk And Hooked Up?

Joan Jerkovich - June 1, 2015 12:15 pm

I should have listened to my friends who knew his ex, but I didn’t think he’d also cheat on me. He told me he’d gotten a girl drunk at a party and hooked up with her. He wanted to break up, but he was my first serious boyfriend and I begged him back. How can I trust him?

Ouch! Do you really think it’s worth the effort to even try to build trust with this guy? You mention that you wish you had listened to your girlfriends before, what are they saying now?

Sometimes, if we’re really willing to listen, our friends do have a more objective view on what is best for us. Any chance we’ll be seeing this guy listed on the “bad boyfriend” Internet sites?

Give some serious thought to what you want out of a relationship and don’t sell yourself short. If you need to, sit down and write out all the reasons you are a really great girl and deserve a really great boyfriend!

Get with your girlfriends and let them tell you why you deserve to be with someone who deserves your trust. Real girlfriends are there for each other and support each other.

Women all over support you with taking back your power from this cheater. You go girl!

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  • What do you need from this relationship to rebuild trust?
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  • If he breaks your trust again by cheating, what will your next step be?

Listen to “The Joan Jerkovich Show” this weekend for “9 Dating Do’s And Don’ts”, “A Man’s Advice For First Dates”, and “Tips For Coping With Wedding Stress”. Empowering Talk Radio from “Your Life Coach”!

Joan Jerkovich, BCC Board Certified Life Coach

Joan Jerkovich, BCC
Board Certified Life Coach

 
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