Should I Marry A Girl Who Drinks Too Much?
Joan Jerkovich - October 12, 2015 7:00 am
I’ve been dating a girl for 2 years and really think she could be the one except for one thing. When we go out she always drinks too much to where I end up taking care of her the rest of the night.
When I try to talk to her about her drinking she passes it off like she’s just a party girl having fun. Even her friends don’t get as drunk as she does when we’re out together.
Should I be concerned about getting married?
Yes. Repeated instances of drinking to the point of drunkenness or passing out are not social drinking. It is a sure sign of someone who has a problem with alcohol…but you already know this, which is why you are asking this question.
You have a difficult decision to make, because if you choose to make her your wife, her drinking will impact all aspects of your life. Assuming she is a problem drinker, odds are that this problem will only get worse over time.
What can you expect in a marriage to an alcoholic or binge drinker:
• Lies, lies and more lies about the drinking
• Living in fear that they will get hurt or hurt someone else by drunk driving
• A roller coaster of emotions where they can be angry drunk…
• Or, angry hung-over…
• …Both leading to a higher incidence of abusive behavior
• Irresponsible behavior with work, finances and children
• Often, an escalation to other drugs
• Often, a criminal history
• An all consuming desire and need for their drug of choice
Yes, there is the hope of recovery, but be prepared for multiple episodes of relapse.
Sorry, I know this sounds bleak, but that said, I know some really good people who suffer with addictions. This illness is one of humanities great tragedies.
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