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Weird Facebook Pics?~Joan Jerkovich “Your” Life Coach

Joan Jerkovich - August 22, 2013 8:00 am

I like taking profile pictures of myself for Facebook that I think are sexy and show my masculine side but I get comments asking if I’m OK? or am I trying to show my dark side? Is this a case of my Facebook friends just don’t get me?

Probably not dude!  Seriously, if your Facebook friends are posting that these pictures are kind of questionable~there’s something to their comments.  Think about it…most people give some thought to their comments before posting because Facebook is such a public forum.  They wouldn’t be telling you this unless they, I’m sure in a well-meaning way, are trying to clue you in to how weird these photos look to the public.  This doesn’t sound like a case of they don’t get you, but that you don’t get how these pictures make you look to others. You’ve probably seen guys who thought they were being charming or flirty or sexy around a girl, get rejected outright and treated like a creepy stalker…like the girl couldn’t get away from them fast enough.  I bet that while watching their pick-up approach you were thinking to yourself, “guy, that’s just all wrong” and you knew they were going to get ditched.  We don’t always perceive ourselves and how we look to others accurately.  Your “sexy and masculine” sounds like everyone else’s dark, creepy and just plain weird.  Do you get me? Embrace your Personal Power with Life Coaching~

    • I don’t think you want people to think poorly of you, so what friend would you trust for an honest opinion of your profile pictures before posting?
    • Why do you think you like taking pictures of yourself that you think are sexy and masculine?
    • What might be missing in your personal life that you feel the need to focus on this (might I say, narcissistic) activity?


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